Posts by MarriageDesigner

When you have a conflict, what are the agreed upon “Rules of Engagement”? If, as a couple, you have not taken a few minutes to decide on what your “Fight Rules” are, sit down and do it now. This is a powerful way to protect your relationship from conflict pain. When you engage in a…

A man falls in love with the woman who makes him feel like he is the good man, he longs to become. Men thrive on admiration and respect. If you have read any of my earlier blogs, you know I don’t just reveal relationship truths, but I also give you actual ways to achieve a…

I had always dreamed of having a Lifelong Love Story, like I had seen my Parents and Grandparents have. I was lucky enough to have a front row seat to observe their attitudes, words, and behaviors. As a child, I thought everyone was as careful and tender to each other as my role models. Unfortunately,…

All the angry things that filled my mind. But, why am I so upset? Maybe I’m not as much angry, as hurt, and actually scared! Scared because your words hurt me, and made me so frightened, that they are a sign that you don’t love me as much as you once did. I’m so vulnerable…

Stop wasting time with men that do not meet the Good Husband Criteria. Take the quiz and discover if you have chosen the right guy for you. Now that you have a better understand of what you are looking for in a potential marriage partner, I am going to ask you to do the checklist…

I know how busy you are with your wedding planning. It is exhausting trying to balance your budget with your longing to make your dream wedding not only beautiful but also memorable. You have dreamed of this day since you were a little girl. The bride seemed like an amazing princess for one magical day.…

Ladies, This is my very first message for my new marriage and relationship blog. Actually, it is my first posting ever to any blog. Sharing ideas on how to create a marriage filled with joy and love that endures is the goal for this blog. I treasure my loving 44-year marriage as one of the…